The holidays are just about here! When I say holidays I am talking about good ‘ole Christmas(Dec. 25); Kwanzaa (Begins Dec. 26) and Hanukkah (Dec. 21). Each year it amzes me more and more how many people will not say “Merry Christmas” or “Happy Hanukkah.” Just so you know where I stand on this issue, I say if you celebrate Kwanzaa then say “Happy Kwanzaa!” It has become to social politcal standard to say Happy Holidays at the risk of offending others. I’m here to tell you that all of the times that I have wished people a Merry Christmas, they have not been offended. In fact, my wife and I know more than a few Jewish families and I am reminded of one in particular. We always wish them a Merry Christmas and they say “Merry Christmas to you and a Happy Hanukkah as well.” Can someone clarify the offensiveness in that exchange?
As I said in last year’s post (posted below) let’s put being PC aside this Christmas and just enjoy our good company.
After lunch with a colleague and some clients I was told I should be more careful about wishing people a Merry Christmas just in case they weren’t Christian. Then I ran past an article from Ben Stein. Most of you know Ben. He was a speechwriter and lawyer for Richard Nixon and Gerald Ford (he did not write the line “I am not a crook”). He has written 16 books and seven novels and is also a screen writer. Some of you may also know him from the movie Ferris Bueller’s Day Off.
Here is what he had to say on the subject.
Herewith at this happy time of year, a few confessions from my beating heart:
I have no freaking clue who Nick and Jessica are. I see them on the cover of People and Us constantly when I am buying my dog biscuits and kitty litter. I often ask the checkers at the grocery stores. They never know who Nick and Jessica are either. Who are they? Will it change my life if I know who they are and why they have broken up? Why are they so important? I don’t know who Lindsay Lohan is, either, and I do not care at all about Tom Cruise’s wife.
Am I going to be called before a Senate committee and asked if I am a subversive? Maybe, but I just have no clue who Nick and Jessica are. Is this what it means to be no longer young. It’s not so bad.
Next confession: I am a Jew, and every single one of my ancestors was Jewish. And it does not bother me even a little bit when people call those beautiful lit up, bejeweled trees Christmas trees. I don’t feel threatened. I don’t feel discriminated against. That’s what they are: Christmas trees. It doesn’t bother me a bit when people say, “Merry Christmas” to me. I don’t think they are slighting me or getting ready to put me in a ghetto. In fact, I kind of like it. It shows that we are all brothers and sisters celebrating this happy time of year. It doesn’t bother me at all that there is a manger scene on display at a key intersection near my beach house in Malibu. If people want a creche, it’s just as fine with me as is the Menorah a few hundred yards away.
I don’t like getting pushed around for being a Jew and I don’t think Christians like getting pushed around for being Christians. I think people who believe in God are sick and tired of getting pushed around, period. I have no idea where the concept came from that America is an explicitly atheist country. I can’t find it in the Constitution and I don’t like it being shoved down my throat.
Or maybe I can put it another way: where did the idea come from that we should worship Nick and Jessica and we aren’t allowed to worship God as we understand Him?
I guess that’s a sign that I’m getting old, too. But there are a lot of us who are wondering where Nick and Jessica came from and where the America we knew went to.